Well....
I sent the email to
VPS Hosting@euk, I spoke to 3 people on the phone, I spent hours sat watching the little yellow light on Livechat - I was even asked to add 'support' to my MSN messenger so that I could speak to the right person (even I know MSN support ended on the the 15th!).
The end result of over 50 hours of chasing EUK to sort out this problem is that I've had to bodge it myself.
I'm now running an open SMTP Relay on my windows
VPS Hosting - hopefully restricting it to only accepting messages from 127.0.0.1 will protect me - but at least I can get messages out from my
website hostings now.
Well I've got 25 days of my first month still to run.. anyone know a good alternative to euk?