Hmmm, I am sad to hear about your problems Manny but it would seem rather out of character for eUKhost to be behaving this way.
Support always seem happy to help and seem to be efficient at sorting problems out. Is there anyone in particular you have had problems with? And any chat logs to verify this?
Which shared server are you based on? I would be surprised about eUKhost letting a shared server become overoccupied! Its normally underoccupied so there is a safety net as far as I understand. Maybe your particular server is suffering difficulty at the moment or has a user on who is abusing there account - these issues are normally sorted out very swiftly.
Which red lights are flashing in cPanel? If you are a bit more specific it could help us understand and solve the problem. Same with the "unable to access forums". Do you mean your forums or the eUKhost forums?
I have never heard support of advising to ignore warning lights for no reason. Maybe if you could provide the chat transcript it could shed a little more light on the situation.
Hopefully we will be able to solve your problems quickly and efficiently
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